Letters From Our Users: Is He Interested?
Dear WooMe,
I’ve been nudging back and forth with this guy on WooMe, but when I message him he doesn’t respond. I know he video chats because I’ve seen his videos. He’s sooooo cute! But whenever I’m online he doesn’t seem to be around.
Is he interested, or should I try to meet someone else?
Sincerely,
Confused Callie
Dear Callie,
Don’t hold your breathe for someone who isn’t giving you the attention you deserve. You deserve better than hooking up with someone who can’t take the time to message you back. If he’s interested, you’ll know it. Here’s some signs to look for when wondering if a guy is into you:
- Does he ask you questions when he sends you messages? If so it means he wants to get to know you. Make sure you ask him some questions as well when you send your response.
- Is he looking at your profile everyday? If he’s looking at your profile regularly but not sending a message he might be a little shy. Try sending him a nudge and see if he responds. If he does, send him a (short) message to see if he warms up to you. If he doesn’t respond let him go. Remember, if he can’t take the initiative to message you back he’s just not that into you, and you deserve better!
- Is he inviting you to public or private video chat sessions? WooMe is unique in the way that users have the option of connecting face-to-face rather than just over messages. Many users prefer to cut to the chase and chat in person to get an idea of what you look and act like over cam.
Hope that helps,
Team WooMe
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Flirt, aka “WOOing”
- verb
To wink, smile, lick one’s lips on camera over video chat during a public or private WooMeNow chat session. To Flirt, aka “WOOing”, can also consist of persistent messaging and nudging. Flirting, aka “WOOing” is NOT to be confused with naughty camera play (that is strictly prohibited by WooMe TOS,).
- synonyms
1. WOOing, 2. nudging
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My guy friends complain all the time that girls just don’t respond to their messages, nudges or friend requests. If this is you, don’t get down on yourself, you’re not alone. Online Dating Newsletter says that
For every 20 emails you send out only one person will respond on average
So how to improve this ratio? Follow these 5 tips and you’re likely to see your response ratio spike.
- Post multiple profile pictures. If a girl visits your profile picture and she sees only one shot of you she’s likely to get bored and pass on the rest. Compile a variety of pictures that give the girls something to peruse through. This is likely the only time she’ll spend on your profile, let her get to know you through your photos.
- Don’t be too much, or too little, of anything. Be quirky, but not too quirky. Be confident, but not arrogant. Be nice, but not a “nice guy”. The point is that you want to show her your personality without scaring her off with your neurotic, self-indulgent tendencies. Be genuine without being over-the-top.
- Send her message. Don’t just nudge her, or add her as a friend as she’s likely to pass over this gesture quickly. Remember, girls get a lot of profile visits. It’s just the nature of the game. To impress her you have to stand apart from the rest. Send her a short message that let’s her get to know you and end the message with a question, so she has something to go off of when she responds.
- Post a picture of yourself with another girl (a cute girl). Psychology suggests that jealousy, although a terrible feeling to be plagued with, is a huge motivator. The girl viewing your profile is likely to be influenced by the attractiveness of the other female in your picture which suggests that you’re a catch worth having. Give it a spin, let us know how it works out.
- Fill up your profile information, but don’t write essays about yourself. You might find yourself incredibly interesting, but she has to be sold. And trust me, it’s going to be a slow sell. As we mentioned above, there’s a lot of dudes competing with you and your proposed conquest has a lot of suitors to sort through. Be specific in your tastes, but don’t over talk yourself. BUT, follow this and the above tips and you’re likely to secure the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow in no time.
How Do I Keep Someone From Seeing That I’ve Viewed Their Profile?
Dear WooMe,
Today I stumbled across a profile of someone I know and I was wondering if there’s any way to keep this person from getting notified of this. The thing is that this person happens to be the ex-boyfriend of one of my best friends, and I’m afraid that if he sees that I looked at his profile that he might tell her. I wouldn’t want something like this to mess with a good friendship.
What should I do?
~Sally Stuck
Sally,
We get a few inquiries a week about people wanting to know how to keep other people from being able to see that they’ve viewed their profile.
Keep in mind that if the person you’re browsing is not a VIP member they will not be able to see that you’ve viewed their profile. Only VIP members can see who has viewed their profile.
If they are VIP and you want to keep them from viewing your profile after you check them out, you can block them. Blocking someone prohibits them from viewing your profile information. They will still be able to see your profile picture, however, so if you’re concerned about them recognizing you just post a picture that isn’t as recognizable to play it safe (don’t post a fake profile picture, you run the risk of having your profile suspended for violation of our terms of service).
-Team WooMe
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We’re keeping things simple because people come to WooMe to meet other people, not spend countless hours answering psych profiles or mindless quizzes about whether or not you prefer dogs over cats.
Sites like OK Cupid and eHarmony are great for whittling away time, but not everyone is trying to find the “perfect” mate via countless hours in front of the computer answering questionnaires. We have the utmost respect for this process and the companies that help facilitate it, but it’s just not what we’re about.
We just think it’s more fun to get to the bare bones right away which is why we offer a unique spin when it comes to dating online: Video chat.
We offer video chat as a way for people to meet one another in a casual setting and get down to the nitty gritty right away. We’ve always found video chat to be one of the best ways to get to know a stranger because you can’t pretend to be someone you’re not over video chat the way you can with a static profile.
Many questionnaires offered by other dating sites incorporate basic psychology strategies to filter out mistruths and compensate for the human inclination to make themselves look better then they really are. However, nothing will prepare you for a real life meeting the way video chat will.
The flattering poses in pictures won’t translate over video if the person isn’t who they’ve made themselves out to be. Someone who appears witty, charming, attractive and physically fit in their profile can turn out to be a dunce in real life.
Come chat with some people and to see what we’re talking about. We’re less expensive than most dating sites and offer you the opportunity to meet real people live, in your area, for free webcam chat and online dating.
If your nervous check out some of our free dating advice and tips that will help you articulate yourself on a first date or find out what to do with your date on your first night away from webcam.
Let us know what you think in our online communities, we’re always keen to hear what you’re thinking.
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